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宥儀IRIS。Yeshe行者http://www.blogger.com/profile/16249539491133767559noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5850878266582344428.post-86058487523147485132016-11-01T10:11:00.001-07:002016-11-01T10:11:32.564-07:00[轉貼]國家地理頻道 洪水來臨前 BEFORE THE FLOOD<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/CY8LD9er7lE" width="480"></iframe>宥儀IRIS。Yeshe行者http://www.blogger.com/profile/16249539491133767559noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5850878266582344428.post-67753290467850995162016-10-08T22:50:00.001-07:002016-10-08T22:51:32.459-07:00【樂音樹屋】Music from the Lonely Planet - Mountain Voice<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/C_AmMHweInk" width="480"></iframe>宥儀IRIS。Yeshe行者http://www.blogger.com/profile/16249539491133767559noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5850878266582344428.post-69108895574916519552016-09-26T09:39:00.001-07:002016-09-26T09:39:55.483-07:00160926又遇到颱風了<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: large;">今年出門跟颱風還真有緣。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">八月份跟阿娜答去東京,台灣天氣好好的,但東京正逢颱風呼呼吹,所以我們本來是中午的班機,足足延到了半夜快兩點才起飛,都這把年紀了,沒想到還可以「意外」地搭到紅眼班機,中間就在修建好的機場內,貴賓室,用電腦上網殺時間。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">09/27凌晨,預計要跟佛學苑好友們,一起進行日本關西高野山及安藤忠雄建築旅,結果從前幾天就一直被梅姬亂著,還不知道等我們人到了機場之後,會有怎樣的變化。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">但,我的旅行運挺好,風和日麗的多,唯一打不過的就是跟我的雨神大同學Alice一起時,這回同行夥伴中,沒有Alice,不知道其他三人是晴孃還是雨姑就是了。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">無聊地就在臉書上問大家:「等待時段做什麼好?」答案也挺有趣的,有同學回說「等待」,也有人建議發呆,看書,備課,做瑜伽,打坐,做夢,想新計劃。。。。想想也挺好玩的,一般大家都是努力安排所有時段,突然空出一個沒有安排的時段,不知道反應會是怎樣?能充分利用才是活在當下的修為吧!</span><br />
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<br />宥儀IRIS。Yeshe行者http://www.blogger.com/profile/16249539491133767559noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5850878266582344428.post-26334262423662085782016-09-20T23:00:00.001-07:002016-09-20T23:00:53.016-07:00【樂音樹屋】Deva Premal - Om Tare Tuttare (1 hour)<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/cPDp9a5BHMM" width="480"></iframe>宥儀IRIS。Yeshe行者http://www.blogger.com/profile/16249539491133767559noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5850878266582344428.post-6766097772737289912016-09-17T06:20:00.002-07:002016-09-18T07:35:32.982-07:00160917寫我家<span style="font-size: large;">慣例,我在中秋可以回娘家。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">也是慣例,我每回都會PO一張我娘家的照片,小小說一下,因為是三級古蹟大夫第。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">然後,也很有趣,慣例都會有很多人在臉書上按讚。還會有各種留言「哇好漂亮!」「改天去參觀!」「很有意思呢!」但今年有佛友留言說「應該要發心寫口述歷史!」這讓我思索了一會兒。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 建築是百年以上了,從我爺爺我爸爸到我,都在這裡出生,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">因為獻出作為地方政府管理的三級古蹟,當然也歷經了許多修復、記錄等等的事件。現在的樣子其實和我小時候不太一樣,外觀尚存,但裡面有些格局、細節都不見了,例如魚鱗狀的磚牆,例如供鳥落腳的建築裝飾,例如木雕窗櫺,例如陶塑的水車堵等等的。只能嘆息雖有文化資產保護的法令,但修復的功法就差遠了。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 至於文史記錄,因為爺爺把族譜保存的很好,還沒成為三級古蹟之前,畫家席德進留下很多寫生畫作,然後建築師楊仁江也帶領東海建築的學生仔細拍照華圖搜集資料,完成了一本「社口林宅」的書,當時家族每戶好像都有拿到書,我們家也有好幾本,只是不知道大家心態怎樣轉的,目前我可看到的,就我家剩下的「孤本」了,十幾年前我還試圖到舊書市場找過,但無所獲。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 老爸老媽從臺北回到社口老家住,也十年以上了,期間總是有很多文史工作者帶團體來參觀,也有些工作室說要做記錄文獻,紀錄影片等等,聽爸媽說,有來採訪的,有來聊天的,也有借走資料說要整理的,當然也有去訪談其他親友的,計劃聽了好幾個,但我到現在也沒見到有個什麼「作品」出現。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 曾經身為傳播工作者的我,論起來,也只在中廣當主持人的企劃助理時,曾經在采風之旅的單元中,以我家做了一集,從採訪、收音,內容文稿、配樂等,我還算卯足勁地投入了,讓當時節目主持人陳玲,好好錄音表現了一番。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 說實在的,我自己也做過多年的史蹟記錄與導覽,但台灣這幾年的文化資產保護下來,只要修過的,好像都沒有比較好,不同地方的建築,通通修成了一個樣,然後跟我家一樣,有些部分是怎樣也「回不來了」。</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 就算不是口述歷史,但至少可以寫的我,寫下一些我的記憶總是可以的吧?如是想!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-size: small;">說來,這回真是陰錯陽差。八月底的東京行,本來是因為小二的姪女吵著要跟伯父伯母到日本玩,想想帶小孩,當然還是東京方便,於是就定下了。結果,小女孩還沒有單獨在外面過夜的經驗,她爸爸實驗性的讓她自己到好朋友住一晚,結果,姪女一到上床時間,就想家想爸媽想到淚潸潸,爸爸只好趕緊領回家,實驗失敗,當然也無法跟我們出國。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> 但機票訂了,房間訂了,也懶得改地點了,就難得地跟老公來個東京雙人行。但不愛逛街Shopping的我,在東京愛做的事情,看展覽,觀建築之類的了。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"> <span style="font-size: small;"> 不過,東京一直有個地方,我想去,那就是東山地區的谷根千。旅遊介紹上面說:</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 22.4px;"><span style="color: blue; font-size: small;">「谷根千」是谷中、根津、千駄木的總稱,是一處保有下町風情,相當適合散步的區域。在這裡能品味東京都會殘留的傳統街景,以及老街居民的生活景象。大家不妨來谷根千看看充滿老街風情的商店街,欣賞當地地標的觀音寺石牆,還有逛逛知名的神社與庭園。</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 22.4px;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span>但對我來說,不僅僅是景點那樣而已。我第一次聽到谷根千,其實是在2000年時(天哪,這樣算起來是16年前。。。。),我剛離開康健雜誌,很想做一些不一樣的出版和健康傳播的時候,看到了一本書叫做「東京媽媽町之夢」。書的內容講述的是</span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #232323; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu"; line-height: 23.4px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;">三名東京的家庭主婦,為了替自己社區做一點事,憑著一份執著和熱情,異想天開辦起了一份社區刊物《谷中‧根津‧千馱木》,簡稱《谷根千》。三個人在奶瓶、尿布和小孩的哭鬧聲中奮勇向前,終於克服各種困難,使得《谷根千》成為日本最成功的社區刊物之一,並且多次獲得大獎,以及大企業的贊助。這份刊物的出現,也使得谷中、根津、千馱木一帶的居民,對於自己社區的街道有了更深的認識,凝聚了社區營造所需的感情和力量。</span></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #232323; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu"; font-size: small; line-height: 23.4px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;"> 這三個媽媽對出版一點都不懂,主婦之一的森詳述雜誌創辦的緣起、經過和曾經面臨的種種困難和危機。在出版圈當時流行一句話「你如果想要一個人破產,就叫他去辦雜誌」,但當我讀這本書的時候,腦中湧出「對啦,就是這個,就像這樣也可以啊!」的感動,後來有機會去日本的時候,我還在書店拼命找刊物(我查到他們有幾個販售地點),買了幾本珍藏,還有一種「有為者亦若是」的衝勁!</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #232323; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu"; line-height: 23.4px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: large;"> </span><span style="font-size: small;"> 但,我一直沒有去到谷根千。當年是因為時間、行程安排、交通不熟悉等等,後來又不常到東京,就這樣錯過錯過錯過。</span></span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-size: small; line-height: 23.4px;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu";">又</span>本來,這回也沒有安排(因為這不在主導的阿娜答<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu";">所了解的範疇</span>),所以剛好有個時段,又剛好他沒有其他的想法,我就說「我要去谷根千!」。所幸,這回我們住在上<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu";">野,<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu";">距離不遠。我還<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu";">跟阿娜答強調:「要知道,東京有些地方我不見得會去了還想去,但谷根千絕對是我<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu";">只要到東京就會想再去的地方<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif , "pmingliu";">喔!</span> </span>」阿娜答聽了其實半信半疑啦。</span></span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 今年,一開春,就決定的計劃:每日靈魂書寫以及每週藝術之約。我不僅有決心,還確定,有毅力,完成!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 我的藝術之約,除了電影,展覽,戲劇,表演,書畫等,當然還有旅行。不是大旅行而已,關鍵在於輕旅行。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 正值趕京奈書之際,我不免會想:幹嘛一定要衝出台灣才是旅行,大學時候我不是因著昆蟲系和生態保育社,還有古蹟協會的關係,採集、賞鳥、繫放、采風等的台灣啪啪走,雖比不上有些學長姐大山大河的壯舉,但健行漫旅還是挺在行。只是,只是,只是。。。。因為種種事情與藉口,少了。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 今天是地球日,原本要跟夥伴們到澎湖望安,因故得順延,但我還是想要維持旅行的願,因此約了香光森林的幾個夥伴,我們要去芝山岩啦!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> 其實,許多人都往遠處飛,但往近處走一樣有好風光!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">懶,就怨不得別人!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">去年年底就說好要動筆的,還是被自己拖了。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">所以連續三週,就像靈氣自我療癒21天一樣,我把新班往後延開,閉關寫書。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">一動手,就等於在整理記憶。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">第一次想去比叡山結果沒注意到封山,第一次到大原時吃河童的淺漬小黃瓜好開心,第一次去平等院感覺到完全融合無違和的感動,第一次到奈良各寺院找藥師信仰,第一次上鞍馬山連結靈氣,所有的第一次後面還有的第二次、第三次。。。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">除了本來就記得的,也有忘了但看到照片或者在書寫過程中浮現出來的印象。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">阿娜答說,這樣先整理一次,下次就還有更多想看想寫的。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">今年,決心要好好落實我與自己的藝術之約,從每週一活動,到每季小旅行,到年度主題壯遊,三月份的京奈書稿,也算其一吧!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">雨,近日一直下,書寫也是一直!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">終於,要開始一本書的旅行。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">其實,是有點嚇一跳啦!原本的寫作計劃中,我這本是沒有那麼早要出現的。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">話說,寫旅行書是我和阿娜答的在寫作部分的合作理想,最初因為阿娜答自己的興趣,我們寫了日本城郭導覽一書,內容雖然我有寫了部分,但八成是他的圖和文。所以,後來再跟出版社討論系列書時,是以原先的書為底做改版為第一本,後面再出幾本新的主題旅行書,其中有一本是我喜歡且規劃的,也是寫作份量多的一本,完成時限本來定在很後面很後面,沒想到前幾天收到訊息,出版社編輯說「希望琉璃光這本提前為第一本!」</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">驚訝歸驚訝,我決定承受!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">一方面我覺得這主題真的想寫,有種不寫會後悔的直覺,所以要把握,因此要動筆,衝了!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">乘琉璃光去旅行,當然是要從療癒起點寫,地點範圍放在京都奈良。寫這兩個地方的書其實不少,尤其京都,不過我要寫的是從我的信仰,我的靈氣,我的療癒等角度寫起。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">為什麼今日特別寫出來,說穿了,這是我逼自己的方式!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">也不知道是從什麼時候開始,我成了敏感體質,溫濕度改變,鼻子就先拉警報,早上會先打幾個噴嚏,拖久些眼睛也會泡腫。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">反正都是拉警報的意思,就是有壓力的意思。</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">我的情緒壓力來源是什麼?這回我還滿清楚的。</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">其實禁不住覺得好笑,原來人可以表面上什麼事情都沒有,雲淡風輕地,若無其事地,甚至還可以和顏悅色地,但身體細胞的反應就裝不來也壓抑不住了。就是會爆發啊!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">這時候,就會想旅行!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">有人說,愛情很難,因為總是遇不到,遇到了也不見得能相愛,愛到了也不見得能在一起,在一起也不見得能相守,相守也不見得能永久等等之類的,所以很難。</span><br /><div class="MsoNormal">
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</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">有人總是太隨緣,或許是因為害怕受傷害,所以要不就選擇等待,要不就選擇不期待,緣分這玩意兒其實由人的心念決定它的濃淡,所以等待者始終只能看著別人幸福,不期待者大多就只能在愛情外面徘徊,以距離保護自己。愛情因此很難,難在於根本不得其門可入。</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">覺得難,讓人不容易有勇氣,沒有勇氣更難去愛,沒有得到愛於是對愛情更有許多不肯定,那麼想要擁有愛情就變得更難了,於是更畏懼向前。我的很多朋友都是這樣。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">所以,愛情可能難,也可能不難,就看你要的是怎樣的愛,還有你是怎樣去愛的吧!</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> 我沒有特別喜歡數學,也不喜歡算來算去,不過,兩性愛情裡面似乎總存在著一些有的沒的的計算式。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">跟阿娜達還在交往期間時,有一回他問了我這樣一個問題:「妳覺得男女兩人交往,誰愛誰多比較好?還是一樣多比較好?」</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我心想:這問題就好像女人在問「妳有多愛我?」一樣的不太好回答。不過我的阿娜達不是個愛耍心機的人,看來只是想討論討論這樣的問題。於是我問:</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">「當然是真話,假話不就等於廢話嗎?」阿娜達苦笑地說。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">「......我認為,還是男生多愛女生一些比較好,多5%就好。」</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> 5%這數字是我從聽聞過的愛情故事歸納出來的。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> </span><span lang="EN-US">有個女性朋友B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,跟我敘述過自己的一段深刻。她說自己用了很長時間推敲尋覓,心中認定了一個男人,</span><span lang="EN-US">S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">倆人</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">彼此都努力過,而且很多次,</span><span lang="EN-US">但S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">總在B希望他在的時候不在,</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">也總是在</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">以為有愛的時候坦承沒辦法愛,因此始終</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">無法真正走到一起,成為戀人。</span>但,</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">總是無法忘懷,那種愛上</span><span lang="EN-US">S,</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">愛著</span><span lang="EN-US">S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">的感覺。</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
故事中還有男人R,他</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">同時是</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">和</span><span lang="EN-US">S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">的朋友,但長久之後,愈來愈陪在</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">身旁,甚至</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">後來S走遠了些,還好幾次都</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">對</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">說:「讓我愛妳吧!」</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">總當沒聽到,只會抓著</span><span lang="EN-US">R問</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span><span lang="EN-US">S最近過得怎麼樣?</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">時間,有時候會改變事物,有時候只是讓事實愈來愈明確。就在B</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">認為</span><span lang="EN-US">R</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">已經放開手之際</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,又收到了一個不知道如何回應的簡訊:</span><span lang="EN-US">I LOVE YOU</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">!當然是來自於</span><span lang="EN-US">R</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
R</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">說:「就讓我愛妳多一些也沒關係,因為我不想在四十歲之後,還只能用這樣的方式愛妳。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
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</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">告訴我:「這樣的</span><span lang="EN-US">R</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,如果面對他,我是會哭出來,甚至愛上他的。」</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我覺得那又何妨?</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">回問我:「那</span><span lang="EN-US">S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">怎麼辦?」</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">其實,哪用管</span><span lang="EN-US">S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">怎麼辦?也管不著吧!</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我總是覺得,</span><span lang="EN-US">B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">愛</span><span lang="EN-US">S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">比較多,很努力卻總是到不了岸,</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
B</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">用</span><span lang="EN-US">S</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">當藉口擋掉了</span><span lang="EN-US">R</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,以為這樣是對</span><span lang="EN-US">R</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">好,偏偏</span><span lang="EN-US">R</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">就算痛苦也只能愛。</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">愛情的事情,他人沒有正確答案。</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我只是忍不住想問:如果曾經擁有過愛人的感情,那麼嚐試一段被人愛的關係又何妨,況且是在雙方已經是朋友的情況下。</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">就算真的不能夠愛,也是要面對的,逃避或擋掉都是遺憾,或許</span><span lang="EN-US"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">也是對人的另一種殘忍。</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">只是別人的愛情故事,</span><span lang="EN-US"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我的感想卻是,以男女的心性差異來說(男征服女接受),相愛的兩人,還是男人多愛女人依些比較好,不用多太多,</span><span lang="EN-US">5%</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">就好。</span><span lang="EN-US"></span></div>
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</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">她們都很獨立,有喜歡的工作,有熱中的興趣,也都會做自己認為標準以上的打扮,甚至有些人在其他人眼中,還是很會安排生活,活動豐富的人,但是,她們總是想戀愛而沒有戀愛。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"><br />
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">我左思右想,以前總是不明白怎麼這些好女人都沒人懂沒人愛,後來才觀察出些端倪。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"><br />
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">有些女性朋友覺得身高是障礙,認為「男人看到高女生就退避三舍」。但是,在我周圍身高女優於男的情侶、夫妻也不少。所以,高</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 細明體; mso-hansi-font-family: 細明體;">──</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">基本上不是大問題。我倒是發掘這類女生多半格局大器、態度理性冷靜,說話重規則、重分析,始終給人「線條很剛直」的感覺。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">女性身材的障礙還有胖。</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-hansi-font-family: 新細明體;">有些女生總覺得無法談戀愛是由於自己體型圓滾滾,因為「大多數男生都不喜歡胖女生」。但是,我周圍也是有很多大尺寸女生都戀愛甜蜜蜜,神情都是粉晶光彩。相較起來,那些自認為身材不美妙的人,多半比較沒自信,比較拘謹,看起來就是「線條很緊繃」。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"><br />
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">另外一位朋友,留學美國的博士,每天生活很規律,在大學任教,工作之餘都在家,有運動習慣,過了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;">35</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">身材還是好得很,跟她聊天,內容大多只能是研究怎樣怎樣,現在學生如何如何,總是很單純,也算是親切,不過我常常覺得少了些激動和興奮。有人說她學歷太高是戀愛障礙,但是多的是高學歷的男女,愛情一樣多采多姿,我觀察來觀察去,也覺得她整個人的都是「直線條」。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"></span></div>
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</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">因為戀愛,心情會變,行為會變,看人看事物的角度會變,對人的感覺也會變。其實最大的感覺,在於人會變得柔軟。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"><br />
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</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana;">但是,女人味,總是柔軟的,令人想親近的,充滿個人風情魅力的,甚至勾魂攝魄的。沒有一定的樣子,沒有一定的感覺,但是都很媚惑。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 10.0pt;"><br />
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最近,每個電視頻道都友好多同類型的談話節目,不管是主播等級的人物挑大樑主持的,還是男女主持搭檔的,抑或是幾個熟男、幾個熟女之類的,雖然也有很多不同的趣味產生,不過討論的議題總不外乎兩性或者人生。<br />
兩性的議題當中,當然又分為單身會遇到的狀況,或者婚姻中會遭逢的問題。婚姻當中,大概又屬相處的的問題,就容易令人落痔峈怞陳甄I,也是吸引人目光停駐的主因。<br />
不瞞大家說,有時候我也會想,如果有一天我也變成來賓的時候,我會講些什麼好笑或者有意義的事情。<br />
有一件事情,是在我看過一個網路上流傳過來的小故事後,更確實在執行的。<br />
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<span style="color: #993366;">故事說,一對小倆口生過孩子之後,他們開始了分床而居的生活。白天工作疲憊,晚上應付孩子,漸漸地二人之間的話越來越少。<br />「我有個鄭重的要求。」女人首先意識到了他們之間潛伏的危機,一天,她對男人說。<br />「什麼要求?」男人漫不經心地問。<br />「每天抱我一分鐘。」<br />男人看了女人一眼,笑了:「有必要嗎?」<br />「我提出了這個要求,就証明十分有必要。你發出了這個疑問,就証明更有必要。」<br />「情在心裡,何必表達。」<br />「當初你要是不表達,我們就不可能結婚。」<br />「當初是當初,現在不是更深沉了嗎?」<br />「不表達未必就是深沉,表達了未必就是矯飾。」<br />兩人吵了起來,最後,為了能早些兒平息戰爭上床安息,男人妥協了。<br />他走到床邊,抱了女人一分鐘,笑道:「你這個虛榮的傢伙。」<br />「每個女人都會對愛情虛榮。」她說。<br />此後每一天,他都會抽個時間抱她一會兒。<br />漸漸地,兩人的關係充滿了一種新的和諧。<br />在每天擁抱的時候,雖然兩人常常什麼也不說,<br />但這種沉默與未擁抱時的沉默在情境與意味上有著天壤之別。<br />終於有一天,女人要去長期進修。<br />臨上火車前,她對他說:「你終於暫時解脫了。」<br />「我會想抱你的。」男人笑道。<br />果然,她到學院的第二天就接到了丈夫的電話,<br />頓時,她的眼睛裡溢滿了眼淚!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #993366;"> </span>擁抱真的很神奇。<br />
我 第一次認真實行「擁抱」政策,是對我自己的爸爸媽媽。反正一直在做健康傳播工作的我,採訪的專業對象,閱讀的書籍,甚至我喜歡的一行禪師、高僧 大德等,都在強調人與人之間,擁抱與撫觸的重要,尤其與家人之間。當時我心想,總不能我自己在報導鼓吹的東西,其實我自己都沒做到,所以我就決定要去擁抱 父母,那時候我已經是快三十歲的人了。<br />
與母親的擁抱是比較容易的,因為我們本來就很親。但是長大後第一次我張開雙臂要擁抱父親時,我父親還不好意思的閃躲,(其實我也不太好意思,而且我爸爸長年抽煙,偏偏我又不是個愛煙味的女生ㄏㄏㄏ),不過後來我練習了好幾次,我發現,我們都歡喜的接受了這個好習慣。<br />
後 來,遇到了阿娜答,從戀愛走到了婚姻。現代社會中,大家整天都忙,有時候他早出門,有時候我晚回家,要不然就是回到家兩人都累,一小段時間後,我就像故事 中的太太一樣,覺得好像少了些什麼。然後我看到了那個故事,想起了我在自己家中跟雙親建立的習慣,我希望在我自己的家庭中,也可以有好的擁抱。<br />
我後來真的跟阿娜答說,不管我們兩個有多忙有多累,不過我們幾點才到家,我們每天都要至少擁抱一分鐘,擁抱時問候也好,說話也好,安靜地感受彼此體溫和力量也好。<br />
後來,我又因為看書建立了寫晨間日記的習慣,我在「家庭與性」的欄位(不懂的人可以去看日本人佐藤傳寫的《晨間日記的奇蹟》,強力推薦而且要去實踐!)還特別寫下座右銘:要每天擁抱一分鐘。<br />
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對於相愛且熱戀中的男女,碰觸、擁抱、親密是很自然也很願意去做的。不過,很多人在時間久了之後,就覺得淡了,就算腦袋裡面瞭解要經營,行為或態度也不見得就落實的起來。<br />
其實,很多習慣都可以是一點一點養成的,我覺得愛情的經營也是這樣,要用一種初戀的心態去挖掘、培養出兩人間的「好習慣」,千萬不要因為事小而不為,<br />
因為往往就是生活中的這些小動作、小快樂、小滿足,才成就了大幸福。宥儀IRIS。Yeshe行者http://www.blogger.com/profile/16249539491133767559noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5850878266582344428.post-42332387145928972162014-12-11T08:46:00.001-08:002014-12-11T08:46:57.241-08:00141211拍案<div style="text-align: center;">
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也不是一個值得敲鑼打鼓的事情,因為其實拖延了許久。不過,終於確定要寫書,也拍案出版了!<br />
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昨天一下午討論下來,2015年簡直就是個寫作出版年。目前統計,兩本半!<br />
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首先,是和阿娜答HUK前幾年寫的日本城郭導覽,要改版也要增加內容了,而且是我要多寫幾個之前沒著墨的,也要多寫這幾年陸續造訪的。這算是半本。<br />
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然後,整理近四年,也寫了約70%的動物療癒書,(說真的,我有一種終於的感受,經歷了不同人要幫忙推介、合作、討論等等,呼!)跟負責的編輯討論過,還需要多一些心念提醒、居家鍛鍊等等的,也會把這幾年遇到的療癒故事加進去,換句話說,也是要寫。<br />
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最後,真正是自己的旅行書了。去了古都京都奈良許多次,我要以療癒的能量為主軸,談談我的京奈,有我喜歡的平安時期,有靈氣的溯源,有藥師菩薩的巡禮,有觀音信仰的禮敬,還有幾年來人情、物情等的記憶與溫情。雖然目前只有綱目和寫作風格的想法,但也是要寫寫寫起來了! <br />
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懸而未決的時候,心裡會有一種僥倖可拖延的狀態,現在拍案敲定了,我自己也跟責任編輯說好交稿期限,就算想大叫,也是要邊叫邊做完啦!<br />
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期許吧!期待吧!宥儀IRIS。Yeshe行者http://www.blogger.com/profile/16249539491133767559noreply@blogger.com0